I guess there is nothing like losing a loved one to put life back in perspective for you. My grandpa's funeral was amazing. Every person who came through the line expressed such a genuine love for him. Each had stories and examples of how he had touched their lives and left a lasting impression with them. Even people who hadn't seen him for 10+ years still came to make sure we as a family knew how much he meant to them, how he had built them up as a person and made them feel loved and appreciated. It's easy to idolize someone when they are your grandpa, but seeing so many people say the same thing just confirmed it. He truly was one of a kind.
Troy and I have spent quite a bit of time talking since the funeral. I think it was a wake up call for both of us. What will people say at our funeral. Will we have touched peoples lives? We we have made lasting impressions?
My sister sang the most incredible song at the end of the funeral. The words read:
When all is said and done
As the season slips away
When I've taken steps beyond my sight
Will I find my strength in greater light
Will my courage grow with every passing day
And will my faith be constant as the setting sun
When all is said and done
When all is said and done
and the years have turned to gold
Will my life become a legacy
Of the things that matter most to me
Will the fire of faith burn bright as I grow old
And will I want to be the person I've become
When all is said and done.
When all is said and done
When my eyes can finally see
Will I glory in the sweet release
And will mercy fill my soul with peace
Will I kneel in wonder at the Savior's feet
Will I hear Him say "well done"
When He sees who I've become
Will I live with Him
When all is said and done.
She struggled to get through the last verse and there wasn't a dry eye in the congregation. And I'm sure we all had the same thought. Without a doubt my grandfather heard "Well, Done Ray." Now the bigger question is - would I?
It was one of those pivotal moments in our lives when you really stop and evaluate yourself. And then your realize just how much work you have to do.
4 comments:
Thanks for making me cry AGAIN.
Isn't it interesting what type of perspective you can gain from a funeral? I'm so sorry you lost your grandpa. It sounds like he was an amazing man who really left his mark on many people. Thanks for sharing
Jami you have an amazing gift, you can express yourself and tell a story so well. I am sure you will cherish that post for ever. What an amazing Man your grandpa was.
Your grandpa sounds like such an amazing person. I love that he went to American Idol and boogie boarded in the ocean. What wonderful memories. You make me want to have known him. It sounds like his funeral was wonderful too - so touching. Again, so sorry about your loss.
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